Issues You Will Face

We live in an age in which dying, and knowledge about dying, have moved from the realm of cultural inheritance to that of institutional management. The decision to die at home, or to take on the responsibility of caring for a dying person, is thus a courageous act of human reclamation. But because the dying in our culture have been largely sequestered into hospitals and nursing homes, it is necessary that terminally ill individuals who would do otherwise, and those who care for them, contemplate and engage with the process of dying as a learning experience. Of course the re-personalization of dying means that the experience, for each person, is itself the primary teacher. That said, we can glean helpful lessons from the experiences of others.

The following websites address topics that may be of interest to people with terminal illness.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

A helpful guide that addresses frequently asked questions about end of life issues:
http://www.embracingourdying.com/about/faq.php


Dealing with Grief

Written by Mayo Clinic staff, this website offers support in dealing with grief:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/grief/CA00041

When You are Overwhelmed

Family caregivers’ often find themselves overwhelmed with questions about how to best provide support for the dying–and for themselves. For answers to these questions, we recommended the Family Caregiver Alliance:
www.Caregiver.org

Eldercare services

Senior Link Online is an excellent senior citizens' site that includes Finding Eldercare Services, Legal and Financial Services for Elderly, and Elder Care Planning:
http://www.seniorlinkonline.com/Caregiving_FAQ/Frequently_Asked_Questions/Eldercare_and_Caregiving_-_frequently_asked_questions/

 

Caregiver Issues

The Women's Health Website answers such questions as: What is a caregiver? What is caregiver stress? What can I do to prevent or relieve stress? What caregiving services can I find in my community?
http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/caregiver-stress.cfm


Signs of Impending Death

Dying is a process that occurs in stages. If you have questions about this difficult process, please call one of our experienced volunteers. Please see our contact list for information on contacting us with your questions/concerns.

The following websites provide the signs that can be observed when a person is in the final stages, and when death has occurred:

www.hospicenet.org/preparing/preparingfordeath

www.care-givers.com/signs/signsandsymptomsofdeath

 
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